How does one succeed in life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Making more friends is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do you think most harem anime and manga have lame male protagonists that would be considered losers and pathetic by most people?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What's a band that is really popular that you don't like? Why?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

When do you start "growing old"?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Even Captain James T. Kirk was trapped in a woman's body. Don't you think he'd support trans people?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What I need from you?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why would calling me an incel help anything? How does that solve anything? Why can’t you actually be helpful and offer productive honest advice?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

I have been married for 34 years, and I found out my wife lied, and cheated a lot back before we got married. Does she not change, or is it possible she is still a cheater?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why should the law care about what I do behind closed doors?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why do flat-earth conspiracy theorists believe that photos from space, including those of satellites, are fake?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

That's it for today.

For those who were actually old enough to have experienced the 1970s and not for those who were born in the 70s. What were the pros and cons of that era?

Ask yourself:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do not set goals—set systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.